May 2022 |
Whether a drinker or as a newly teetotal dater, Tori Felder didn’t have great romantic experiences, until a radical choice changed everything.
Ultimately, and this truth wouldn’t come until much later – I was afraid of dating as my true self.
The thing no one tells you about sobriety is that while drinking may have been the catalyst for a lot of problems, it doesn’t mean not drinking solves all of them.
I had to love someone this time - for once - with all my intelligence. Rather than dumbing myself down with drinks, in order to accept less.